No lad if there is anything I have learned from experience it is that women are deeply attracted to strength and, in some cases, brutality.
Strength, by which I mean capability, is really the key to everything. Only the strong/capable survive by definition, because what it means to be strong is to be capable of achieving goals like survival, power, reproduction.
This applies not just to genes but also to ideas and cultures. A tribe with no altruism and kindness will not be strong; they cannot cooperate and will be crushed or out-competed for resources by a tribe that encourages altruism within the group. Cultural altruistic traits survive and a culture of morality (altruism, mutual aid, justice) is preserved.
However, ultimately, strength is what makes them survive. Their morality/altruism made them strong.
Ultimately morality/kindness/justice/altruism only exist and culturally and genetically preserved because they make the collective capable/stronger than other collectives.
Morality is nothing without strength and you need strength to preserve morality. Women hate weakness for good reason.