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How to be more socially intelligent

Anonymous Sat 25 Jul 18:05:53 2020 No.11937457 View Reply Original Report

Quoted By: >>11937470 >>11938497 >>11938784 >>11938881

Not in the sense of stuttering or not making contact. I’m not as social as I could be because I don’t do much besides hang out with the same 5 friends from high school. I’m 23.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 25 Jul 2020 18:08:36 No.11937470 Report

Quoted By: >>11937859

>>11937457
is there a science related question you have?

Anonymous

Anonymous Sat 25 Jul 2020 20:49:27 No.11937859 Report

Quoted By: >>11939284

>>11937470
He wants proof of the fifth wall.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 01:46:25 No.11938497 Report

Quoted By: >>11939289

>>11937457
first of all is there a certain desire for you to even want to attain this, if not then just learn how to say basic things to the specific people and do the other desires you need. Socially intelligent usually doesn't mean a lot apart from being able to make connections to ensure you get the stuff you want said. It's not even a intellect that requires a lot to learn and can simply be done through observation at best.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 03:47:28 No.11938776 Report

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Step one get off this board and go outside

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 03:50:47 No.11938784 Report

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>>11937457
Find a hobby or interest and you will make friends along the way. This is the response you want.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 04:01:16 No.11938810 Report

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this isn't science or math related. go to >>>/adv/ for advice on how to improve your social skills.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 04:44:18 No.11938881 Report

Quoted By: >>11938919 >>11939289

>>11937457
I have found drugs to be the most effective method. Benzos, stimulants, and opiates all greatly improve my social skills temporarily. Normally I find it painful to make eye contact or even look directly at someone, but on those drugs I become much more “in tune” with the social atmosphere. Idk what is a more long term solution.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 04:59:09 No.11938919 Report

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>>11938881
There isn't one. Use a benzo once or twice a week and no more

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 08:20:56 No.11939284 Report

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>>11937859
Just walk inside a house and look up...

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 08:26:19 No.11939289 Report

Quoted By: >>11939292 >>11939330

>>11938881
Ignore this anon, op. clear signs of addictive substance personality.

yes drugs may take the edge off our anxieties and more willing to engage but, from my experience as a 17 year old unable to talk to girls without blushing, sweating and stuttering while being afraid of everyones judgement. Now as a 24 year old i've found being honest with people and speaking as I see fit to work best. I'm not perfect nor expect to be ( talking fast, embracing awkward situations with a laugh or joke instead of going quite) but i've noticed people are warmer with me and others actually dislike me which is oddly nice to know.

>>11938497
As anon said you should definitely learn social etiquette and tact but don't live by those rules.

Anonymous

Anonymous Sun 26 Jul 2020 08:27:52 No.11939292 Report

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>>11939289
To be clear, i;m not a narcissist. i've spoken with friends etc and they think it's jealousy or envy. I dont know why becaue all this is learnt behaviour and not inhereit (upbringing, single mum etc) anyway enough of this anonymous journalling.

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le acrön no2 fan Sun 26 Jul 2020 08:50:07 No.11939330 Report

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>>11939289
The best way to end an awkward silence is to acknowledge it

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