>>11674571I don't think you know what a fetish is.
Your fetish deviates by some amount from the normal.
Me liking girls if I'm a man, is a fetish, but it's driven by my biological reproduction drive.
Your fetish is to be fucked (or fuck), people of the same sex which is driven by something else. POTENTIALLY mental illness, but it may not be.
But all the same, I think there are better choices then to live your life being promiscuous with the same sex.
Notice how I didn't say relationship, but instead said promiscuous. Here's the thing, you don't enter a "long term" > 10 years,while being gay, as it is purely pursuing fetish, is a choice you make on the basis of lust. This is true of both homosexual, and heterosexual relationships.
If a heterosexual relationship is formed on the basis of more than to fuck as many modern relationships aren't, it will last much longer.
"""""love""""" is gender non-specific and means noting in a relationship context. Love means different things for different genders. Each gender knows when love is achieved as they can make the "connection" between them, that there is a mutual bond in relation to something greater than lust. When in lust, the connection is purely sexual.
Love is abstract and cannot be correctly defined concretely, without biased opinions being introduced.
So abstractly, we can view love as the "between" of two people, node to node. But only the nodes really know what that connection is.
Lust is far more concrete, you can see it from the external, there is no greater connection than the visible, sexual connection, between two nodes.
I am yet to be convinced that there is something more abstract in a homosexual relationship greater than lust.
