Because I'm a man, I'd want a wise & mature adult to be my wife, meaning she'd:

•Be no younger than 3 years from my age

•Experienced & understands what heartbreak is like

•Went out on enough dates with dudes to know what type of guy she can settle & start a family with

•Have a decently understood sense of expectations & self

^Only an inexperienced fuckboi would disagree with these expectations