If you think you are a moral agent but don't consider the innate morals of the people you breed with or prop up you are part of the problem. There are plenty of people who act for the good of the whole, who get leeched on by the selfish agents - its not enough to be selfless, you must not help proliferate greedy takers.

If you can't identify women with this trait, and cannot reject them, raising a moral child with them will be an immense struggle. If you are addicted to fapping or porn, you will not have the strength to make these distinctions.