>>115474311)be confident
2)be funny/fun to be with
3)have good hygiene and looks
4)be good at something(preferably something you like)
5)be fit, excersise
6)be financially important, have money conections , etc...
Number 1 is non negotiable, without that its almost impossible (but not entirely) . 2 and 3 are strongly advisable, and the rest are good plus but you can easily do without.
This is what you need, when you have at least 1, preferably 2 and 3 and as much of the rest as you can proceed like this:
Find a girl you like and try to gradually get closer GRADUALLY, like getting into conversations, seeing if you can make her laugh. ITS VERY IMPORTANT NOT TO OVER DO IT, DONT BE CREEPY OR CLINGEY(if youre extremely socially awkward this may take practice).
If you see theres a good response from her, then just GRADUALLY G-R-A-D-U-A-L-L-Y try to interact more often with her, its crucial that you dont start speaking to her every single minute, as a rule of thumb, whenever you get the urge to talk to her wait a day, DONT CHASE HER, leave plausible deniability that youre just being friendly. If this naturally evolves into you having gradual conversations with her then you ask her out, something like "hey i was thinking wanna go grab a coffe/go to an art museum" the exact activity depends on the person but remember PLAUSIBLE DENIABILITY dont be too obvious. if she says yes and youre both +18 then it means shes definitely interested. reminder: INTERESTED DOES NOT MEAN YOURE IN, IT MEANS SHES CONSIDERING IT AS A POSSIBILITY, SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO CHANGE HER MIND YOU FUCKING RAPEY CUNT.
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