>>11374229because getting a GF is (usually) the first step into marrying and having kids, and people normally feel the instinct or imperative to have children and "trascend" through them.
note that, what i mean with "trascending" is: doing something that you like and want, while leaving your legacy behind.
You can trascend through many ways, the default one is having kids, but there are many other ways such as developing a technique to be passed on, drawing art, making music, helping people, being the best at what you do, inspiring others to do better, and many more.
since poor people can't enjoy many of those things i already mentioned earlier because they are marginated from socirty, poor people feel like they have no other way to trascend than to have many kids,
heterosexual men nowadays are, in a vast majority, wagecucks (poor), thus, they subconciously want to trascend by having kids with a roastie that will divorce rape them. They cover their eyes with rose-tinted glasses thinking that Stacy is different and all that horseshit and BAM, he gets cucked by jamal the pimp who "trascended" by being a pimp and having plenty of cash.
after stacy removes kids from hetero-male's life, suddenly, he feels he has no more reason to exist other than being a paycheck for stacy and then, he seriously contemplates suicidal ideations while thinking about the future of his kids.