>>11354734this is resolved if you try the following (like the Peano axioms) -
take the empty set
how many elements are there in total? zero.
Consider a set to be like an element
Then how many elements are there? one, because we have the empty set.
Then how many elements are there?
two, because we have the empty set and the number 1, which is the number of elements we counted the first time around.
Then how many elements are there?
Three, because we have the empty set and the numbers 1 and 2.
Just count up from there.