>>11347289Subconsciously, with a man who is more skilled, you're trying to keep pace, conform, compete, etc. With a woman you['e not competing (she's running a different race), and if you're not pursuing her or having some other use, you disengage, Perhaps you're afraid, you know you can;t have her, you don't even want to play.
Gotta transcend that intersex dynamic framing.
