>>11343893Being a man means confronting things which are unpleasant, uncomfortable or scary (exemplified in mythological hero stories like David and Goliath (pic related)). You can develop this aspect of your character by pushing yourself to do things you're apprehensive about, or things which make you uncomfortable. Many men see great benefit in fitness, putting themselves through the discomfort of lifting weights. Push yourself in all aspects of your life. Speak up when you ordinarily would be silent. Be a man of action. Jump into unfamiliar and uncomfortable situations. You'll suck at these things at first, but you'll grow more confident and competent as a man with time.