>>11304753>aspies aren't loners naturally, they are getting rejected until they give upThat exacerbates their tendency to lone wolf but regardless, ASD people are perfectly comfortable with being alone.
You seem to be describing kids with ADHD.
Someone put it best: "Autists are people who have found for themselves, something more interesting than other people "
They don't develop the skills to cooperate in any society so they fail true, but if even if it's when they give up, people are going to notice how strange their extreme introversion is.
>They hate working with normies. They try but normies dont want them nearWell, that's a problem when most of the group is normies isn't it? So they have a problem working in groups.
Aspies dont want normies that near them either(hence I brought up how much easier the Italian greeting vs Japanese greeting), normies are taken aback by this along with Aspies general inability to consider other interests.
>Aspies can consider others feelings but they can't because they dont understand feelingsSo basically they fail at considering others' feelings which can easily be seen as being rude or impolite, especially in Asia. This was my point.
>if aspies have routines it's only because they have tested things that do not trigger normiesNow this is just silly. The routines they do are unrelated to everyone else, not because of them. It is the only thing that they like to do.
>Eye contact is only normal in western culture. In all other cultures, "eye contact" means an occasional brief glance, not 50% persitent stare.You're speaking as if autism is usually diagnosed in adolescence or adulthood. Babies and young kids interact with their caretakers extensively. They want to share their experiences and laugh with others. If they aren't even doing that with their parents, which is quite common in ASD.
Occasionally, you will see the super high functioning ASD kid slip under the radar until adolescence, but hardly.