>>11198891>How can I do that?1) Decide who you want to be.
2) Make a plan to achieve that new personality
3) Cut contact with familiar people and environments
4) Do the brainwashing
The third point is very important, memories are the fertile ground where stable personalities take root, unless you can get enough new experiences with your new personality, you will risk falling back.
If done proper you'll remember your older self like you remember your youthful self, many memories but you're not really him anymore, nor you could bring yourself to be him again.
Of course it all depends on you, only you can know yourself. I can suggest a few things like:
- visualize how you'd want to react to situations
- repeat affirmations/mantras (ease your subconscious into it)
- tell yourself what you are trying to achieve
- build up confidence, take a simple hobby that can give you gratification
- fill in the people you want to keep in your life about what you're trying to do
- be an actor, try to pretend to be your new self, as they say "fake till you make it"
- feel confident and positive (feel directly if you can, or use NLP anchors)
- meditate once or twice a day, at least 15min each
- do some physical activity (eg: 2km walk daily)
Bear in mind that no one has a single definite personality, we're all different people in different situations with different people. As I said the only thing that makes you stable is being rooted in memories, and even that changes little day by day.
I don't know you, and I don't know if you know yourself, just in case you could learn how to use a pendulum to talk directly to your subconscious, it can be helpful to check if you're both on the same page. In some cases subconciouses can be crazy or delusional, if you're unlucky try to compromise, find common ground. Don't try to push supernatural bullshit on your sub or it will try to amuse you.
Mantras, thoughtforms, hypnosis, they're just mental tools.
Find a way that works for you.
