>>10962422>>10962426>>10962434>>10962441ok I will answer since everyone else is just way 2 autistic
You need to understand that by asking that question
>how does she do it?You are already failing, since she does it unconsciously, while for you, it seems impossible that she does it unconsciously. It means that it doesn't matter at all ''HOW'' she does it, because she simply does it, meaning doing it is part of herself, meaning there are no secondary autistic intellectual act from herself to do, and it is that part that you are trying to solve ; a part which doesn't exist in any category.
Coming to the logical second part of your question. I suggest to change the direction of your main thinking vector in this situation. The solution is simple. She must not be a factor. The more the factor of her approaches 0. The goal is simply to eliminate it. Once that's done and you are pursuing real important goals. She may or may not be part of the final state. If she is ; great. If she isn't, don't be sad, because there are MANY. Chances are that eventually it will work.