you know wat really grinds my gears? students who "study hard" to "be a good boy and make mom and dad proud"

>Cultivate self-discipline, work hard, study hard! your hard work will pay off one day! Give up your fun, quit the video games, and study hard! Study hard, focus, make good grades so you can get a good job, meet a nice girl, get married, and have kids!

>he's a very smart, hard-working, intelligent, decent young man! look at his good grades, what a good boy! he's sure to be very successful!

no no no NO. i reject the idea of working hard to do sumthin u dont wanna do... thats stupid... i dont learn chemistry and math to "study hard, become successful, be smart, and make my family proud", i do it because i'm a freaky autist who actually loves math. I LEARN MATH FOR MYSELF, NOT TO BE AN "HARD-WORKING INTELLIGENT HANDSOME YOUNG MAN"!!!!!! or to become a "disciplined decent young man who attracts all the ladies"