>>10843708ok recently I got to witness female attraction towards "douches" first-hand.
I was threatened by and also witnessed a guy beat a dog to death in the middle of the street.
The guy was clearly mentally agitated on that evening; but at the tribunal where I was there as a witness, even though everybody was clearly against him, he kept his composure as if this was "just business as usual".
I got a good look into his eyes and I could see a similar "dead" look that you can see in american psycho; in short his body language, his tone, the way he looked at others all very loudly shouted P S Y C H O.
The (female) judge has to constantly bring him back on track, he, like all poor liars couldn't keep his story consistent.
During the trial the judge and prosecutors seemed to agree he was due for a psych eval.
BUT! BUT! a few days later the final judgment was revealed: no psych follow-up, no fine, no jail, apparently it was all fine and dandy.
This is for a guy who had already been arrested by the police for beating up his girlfriends and stabbing middle school kids. And the day of the trial guess who was there? some of his exs all supporting him against... me? LOL Also it was revealed he got his latest girl preggers at 19.
Guy doesn't have a job, no car, spends his days threatening people and acting like a chad; but he is going to be a father and apparently a real catch judging by the (ex)girlfriends who showed up...
BUT it is all okay because he is attractive (per my area's standards)
Lesson learned: be a douche. I'd say I am not as attractive as him but I can hold up to scrutiny (even at my age) only "problem" is I fall in the introverted and discrete category, doesn't mean I am going to let people walk all over me, I just keep to myself by default. I should really just be more agitated, ideally in a douchy way...