>>14278598You see, when you push against a wall, the wall applies normal force back due to the acceleration of your arm which can be bigger or smaller depending on how strong you are
When you're laying in bed, the bed applies normal force solely due to gravity acceleration
the normal force of the bed is (Your body mass) * (Gravity acceleration) upwards, which cancels out the downward force of gravity which is (Your body mass) * (Gravity acceleration) downwards
Hence it can be argued that gravity is pulling you down while also pushing you up such as that you stay at the exact same place