>>14226286Lol.
Try learning to flirt and pay attention to the vibe. A chick giving you any attention and laughing at your jokes is just her communicating "wow, you seem like a normal, approachable person I can socialize with to pass some time" not "fuck me now, daddy."
Pro-tip girls are usually "talking to" 10+ people at a time (sometimes 100, but in a massive low-effort way). Her texting first is the same as a rat pressing a button, because it wants some food. You're not special, mate. There's 9 other buttons that'll give her a quick dopamine boost a la attention.
Literally, flirting is a cheat code. If a woman is actually giving you her undivided attention (lol), flirting/being playful/mischievous moves you away from the "social pal" bucket to the "fun" bucket. And then that's when you go down the rabbit hole. You decide where the relationship goes from there (for a little bit) -- before the high wears off, you become boring, she starts to have contempt for you---because you've "changed"---and it's over.
That's modern women though. I'm gonna assume you're a college kid, so that's the playbook, buddy. If you want an actual relationship with someone, start going to a major church in your area. The girls there will be incredibly forward with you, if you're willing to pump them full of babies and provide them the dream of being a SAHM, who cooks and takes care of her man. She won't love you, but she'll love that you're providing her the dream she's been dreaming since her mother pounded it into her head in elementary school -- but only for a little bit.