>>3884177No, you're right. I'm also still working through that pain, I only just recently allowed myself to realize/acknowledge that I had had a crush on one of my friends in high school, which was like 15 years ago. There was so much hatred for so long, and suddenly things get a little better and straights start calling us privileged. And I've always tried so hard to be a good ally to trans people, but when I see heterosexual trans calling themselves gay I can't help but feel kind of ticked off. Like the thing that caused us so much suffering beyond our control has now been turned into a cute little costume to make straight zoomers feel special, a costume they can choose to take off any time they feel like it. And that's not even getting into the "cotton ceiling" bullshit that's getting pushed now, it's almost like we're moving in a circle.