Why does society like to tell boys:

"TURN IT(YOUR MASCULINITY) OFF OR WE'LL TURN IT OFF!!"

But, then they go around and accuse them of being "pussies/faggots/soyboys/fuckboys/betas/cucks, etc" for simply "turning off" their machismo while the older generations of men are free to be as jocular as they wanna be without any restraint?

In the meantime, girls can be aggressive and macho and still resort back to their cute feminity.