>>3165488I actually have a preference for more assertive, masculine cuteness in boys AND girls - the girls i know who i think of as "cute" are mostly of that boyish sort of cuteness
I have a distaste for the limpness of hyperfemininity - it's so ... weak, so mushy, like undercooked cake. I like my boys being boys and my girls ... not ... being girls
i don't mean butch, i find that i dislike it for the opposite, complimentary reason i dislike hyperfemininity - no softness, no malleability -
like a metal with no bend, it'll break. i just don't like girls who act so spineless, it's pathetic
And girls and boys who are JUST pretty with no outstanding characteristics either in their vanilla looks or vanilla personalities bore me, pleasant as I find them. Pleasant is all i find them - that's why