Can we talk about this game?

This is my first H-game. For my first playthrough I wanted to fuck Arisoto so I visited him everyday but eventually he stopped appearing on the map. I figured out if you want a certain outcome you need to follow a walkthrough for it.

Ended up spending the last ten days in my room waiting for Arisoto to reappear and got the bad ending when you end up working on the farm with your gay dads.

Which route should I aim for first in my second playthrough? Which is the most fucked up?