>>2275496In fact, what you like is not "hetero setups", what you like is the subdom. The subdom is the fact to have a domination aspect in sex. It's like a kind of very soft bdsm, that many MANY people do.
But sex without it is possible, and most of the time, better. Subdom is very exciting in our heads and for masturbating, but less really, because that's hurt (yea, im mainly bottom), and there is less love and more fantasm, so even less pleasure.