I've dated more women than men in real life, but it kind of feels like a cop-out on my part. I'm more attracted to men, but its more difficult to be confident and not awkward around men. Add to that, I have a fairly androgynous look and men tend to run with the assumption that I would be a complete bottom and are often offput by the idea of my topping; that's just not an issue with women. Pursuing men is just too much trouble in real life, or rather I'm not willing to put in the work to have relationships with men.
My lewd collection is almost entirely male, even the heterosexual art features men that I am attracted to.