Consider, for a moment, that if it was actually advantageous to reproduce with an attractive person, then attractive people would outcompete unattractive people in the sexual market. Stretched out over many generations, there would eventually be more attractive people around than unattractive. That's clearly not the case, therefore, it is not actually advantageous to reproduce with an attractive person and all of your lusting has been leading you down a false path. Wife an ugly woman with other qualities, you god damn idiot.