>>14334808as you are in a western focused website, I'll assume you at least know how the westerner life style is
the moral of a religious jew and that of a average westerner are opposites, in the western cosmovision, we see ourselves as 'free' beings, but a hyperly religious man would see himself as a slave of a greater meaning, thus limiting his natural instincts to an unhealthy point, and having greater suffering than an average westerner, because the westerner instead of limiting their natural instincts, they just amplify them, and take all they can from what they have, that is the idea of 'me' being the center of 'my' existence, individualism, I don't think about my actions to please a greater being, my actions are specially focused for me to enjoy more, and to have a greater time in earth
you should learn about epicureism, estoicism, hedonism, and other lines of thought that can give you better answers about why you should manage your time well in your life, and why being a slave of a God (or a possible 'ascent') is wasting your effort to gain 0 results and suffering more
