>>14012867in those situations one must recognize oneself as the ferryman of the dead. you are not a destination to any of these people, you have seen far more than they will ever see, and although you may have many a story to tell them, most will seek a quiet passage from shore to shore. try to enjoy their company and relish the sweetness of their innocence, but accept that your lot is not theirs and stay focused on the work that you are meant to do