>I want to study mathematics and physics
Focus on the fundamentals of Mathematics first (Algebra, Trigonometry, the Calculus) first, then study Physics. I wouldn't recommend studying multiple subjects at once e.g Algebra, Trigonometry, Physics. It will just burn you out.
>I am sure that you guys have some charts with the handbooks from which one has to study to become proficient in this two fields
I wouldn't recommend paying much attention to which book you use. Sure, some books are written more elegant than others. And sure, some textbooks are written for the common denominators of the course e.g Stewart's, but you shouldn't seek a textbook because it "explains a concept is just the right way to make it easy for you". Instead of going about it thinking what the textbook can teach you, you should think about what you can produce from it. I'd recommend going on some random college (or whichever of your choosing), and using the textbooks they use for their courses. For lower level Mathematics, your probably better off looking for what your local community college uses, since most universities don't teach Algebra or Trigonometry.
After you find which textbooks you need, I recommend actually buying them (buy them from Thriftbooks for like $5-$10 each). I recommend having a physical copy do that you can write within the margins any notes you make (questions, ideas, proofs, etc). Don't over do it though. The way I think about it is "why make notes copying down what's in the book when all of the equations are already there?". Ultimately, it is a tool to help you better understand the material and identify any holes.
There are some (potential) flaws with this method that I am just starting to find out. Check out blooms taxonomy if you want to know why this method fails regarding "memorization".
