>>13793694The standards of the women are consistent with general external factors like social status, manliness, signalling protectivity, conformity to social norms, etc. ...
This that are more or less evolutionary requirements for mating.
So no, there is no circular logic, as the loser classification stands alone, independent of individual females classifying someone as a loser.
What makes someone (male) a loser by judgement of male and female doesn't differ to a significant extent.
Also on the broader scope of society someone can be classified as a loser if he has a multitude of dysgenic traits for example (that would be a higher oder of loser classification by group rather than explicitly by individual group members).