>>13713109Yep. OP's "friend" should check out troubled desire and the virped forum.
>>13713111I'm not sure. Recidivism among sexual predators does drop by around 20% when they are chemically castrated, but, at the same time, men with erectile dysfunction are overrepresented among convicted sex offenders. It's hard to know whether this is a good way of stopping pedos. If he feels like that will help him, he should try it with the assistance of a professional.
>>13713103In addition to the aforementioned advice, tell him to put barriers between children and himself.
It's very easy for a male, in a moment of horniness, to convince himself that, somehow, committing sexual abuse won't harm the victim. That's how most sexual abuse happens. His morals, as strong as they are, can NOT be the only barrier between him and children.
Chastity cages are an option. If he has to unlock the chastity cage before having the chance of doing anything, then he will have one more opportunity to stop doing it.
Of course, goes without saying that he should avoid being near children. Like, he needs to actively make situations awkward just to avoid children. Your brother needs you to take care of his little goblin? Refuse it. The social rejection and awkwardness that you feel can never top the trauma of being raped as a child.
He has to put things into perspective. He's not a monster, but he has a higher probability of becoming one than non-pedophilic men. I completely understand, although I do not relate to, the frustration of having to limit yourself due to factors you did not choose. It's not fair that some people have to carry burdens like this one. But not carrying it would be throwing others under the bus.
Find a therapist as well. That will help a lot. But first, he should check his jurisdiction to be sure that the psychologist won't need to report him to the law. Don't expect to be converted into a teleiophile, but expect that it can help you live a healthy, offense free life.
