>>13689328During the newborn days it really sucked for me because when the little guy was asleep I wanted to optimize that time by sleeping too... but his mom would hop on my d*ck and would emasculate me if I hesitated for even a second. I got like an average of 2 hours of sleep a night for those first 3 months.
>>13689047maybe you should work on being a better person, anon. You deserve to be a father -- it's an amazing experience. Involved fathers, on average, score higher on just about every measure of happiness than childless men, absent fathers, and even (weirdly enough) mothers.
>>13683606Paternal drive is likely instinctual -- there are several endocrine "markers" for fatherhood that can be measured when a man spends time with his pregnant partner that persist after birth if the man sticks around/disappear if he leaves.