>>13562074>I was a backup guy once before becoming her boyfriend after her relationship ended. We basically had a relationship going on behind her actual relationship, with her having a hard boundary on anything physical except high-fives, greeting and saying goodbye with hugs. We were clearly emotionally involved and from a stranger's perspective a couple who would do everything on campus together.Did that for a few months with a girl who was a great genetic match for me, given we'd both be R1a haplogroup. That was in 2020. She invited me over to her place with her boyfriend and her poor bf was clearly uncomfortable. I don't think she had any real girl friends, all her best friends were guys. I went along with it since I'm fairly introverted and she came onto me with endless text messages and whatnot.
When the blm riots came around she went hardcore lefty and dramatically ended the relationship over text with me because I gave her the tepid "blm is actually bad for black people" take that's still socially acceptable.
Every girl I've met is so fucking damaged.
I was going to marry my long term gf from high school but then I found out she was cucking me with some fat loser at her work. I took very good care of her and she threw it away because, idk, she was bored or something. "felt like she was missing out." She wants me back and all. I'm basically torn between obviously damaged women who don't care about me and one who cares about me that destroyed me.