>>13556026the wanting to take part in the attributions of being a female (mannerisms, clothes, etc.).
if you want a real gotcha, talk about gender essentialism versus gender abolition. most trans people will probably campaign for gender abolition despite secretly being gender essentialists [spoiler:lit]there is an answer to this, and anyone that figures it out gets a pat on the back.[/spoiler:lit]
blame fundies that tried to perpetuate useless standards.
also each time someone on /sci/ makes a gender thread, their mother dies in her sleep a little more.