>>13361553Check Harris' The Nurture Assumption (1998) and Clancy's The Trauma Myth (2009) if you'd like to develop a generic framework for evaluative claims.
Also, consider that pedophilia will be destigmatized (eggdom efforts are everywhere) sooner rather than later. Eventually, the gender-affirmative model combined with the destigmatization efforts online secondary to the increased demand and production of virtual/drawn child abuse material will lead to a reduction in the number of problematizable paraphilias and a restructuring of Orientation as it is currently defined. If you'd like a (ridiculous) pseudo-ethical defense, check Kershnar's Pedophilia and Adult-Child Sex (2015).