where to find wholesome BL?

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total newfag here, not sure if I should be posting this here or on /y/, but i need a recommendation.
seems like most of the BL that i've heard of is very seme/uke, very like... sexual i guess?
what sorts of BL would you recommend that's
>SFW
>really wholesome and romantic
>slow burn
>can be realistic as long as it's sweet
basically, what my brother would call "yaoi made with yuri sensibilities"