>>3601366Not that anon, but personally I've only ever had one character that I've fantasized about cohabitating with, and I didn't find them until my 20s. I have had several more that I become infatuated with to the point of obsession. I call these characters "husbandos", but I don't have any desire to be with them. The thought of meeting them is actually mortifying. I'm just happy loving them from afar and shipping them with other characters they have chemistry with. Perhaps I'm odd though, since I identify as asexual irl.
If self-insert fantasies are what's necessary to call someone your husbando then I guess my first and only one is Karamatsu. But I wouldn't even call him my all-time favorite male character. He's just the only one I feel I would enjoy a romantic relationship with. Assuming that he's content with being a house-husbando and doesn't gamble my paychecks away.