Only people who advertise their MGTOW status are hated yes. The real MGTOW are the only respectable ones because they realize that no one in the world is going to feel sorry for their problems no matter how much they whine and complain. Real MGTOW understand that they can do nothing about most of society and women and general being "stupid" in their minds.They also understand that anyone trying to tell them how to be a man is just manipulating them into their own understanding of what they think the ideal man is. The true MGTOW is what a "normal person" would have been in the days of farming and conquest, not giving a shit what anyone or society says and coming to their own truths in a way that appeals to them. It's almost reminiscent of Diogenes in a sense, he wass the Greek philosophers critic who just didn't give a shit about anything. He lived in a barrel, did whatever the fuck he pleased and probably lived a better life than any of us stressed out mouse utopianites did because he realized that all you're going to end up as is fucking fertilizer in the soil.
The current MGTOW movement is quite simply, male feminism; a response to feminism trying to change the the world too fast. By observing the process of feminism, MGTOW hope to achieve something similar by hating and blaming women for all their problems. If you think that either are different from one another than you are already a mentally confused individual lost to one side or the other. You think that both genders can be equal when in fact they are both unequal and designed by nature to be so. The problem is that people on either side don't like science, so they try and change it or ignore it completely in favor of identity politics. Gender is now a spectrum of everything from identifying as a dog to an Arbys Melt, sooner or later these movements are going to be lost in a sea of the next generation of moron who are going to be pointing the finger.
TL;DR: You're all useful idiots.