>>99004897Not that unusual. I'm a guy and my best friend at the moment is a girl. Of course I'm pretty much head over heels for her but she's made clear she doesn't want a relationship of any sort (and before you say it, no she isn't just brushing me off, I've witnessed her turn down Chads and she doesn't have Tinder) so at the moment we're kind of stuck in this weird will we won't we limbo, we haven't done anything sexual but she'll routinely cuddle up to me and me to her, I think it's just trust and comfort more than anything else. We're basically identical in terms of interests and humour and I am literally never going to find better than her so I admit it stings a little she's so uncertain.
All her friends think it's hilarious that we haven't decided one way or another yet, but for the time being I guess I'm happy just having someone to consistently rely on and talk to. She's awesome and fun to be with.
Am I pathetic?
