55 Reasons Why Nice Guys Fail With Women
https://www.themodernman.com/blog/55-reasons-why-nice-guys-fail-with-women.html1. Thinking that being really nice to a woman obligates her to be romantically interested in him
2. Assuming that if women don’t like nice guys then they must want bad boys, jerks or assholes
5. Pretending not to be interested in sex
8. Not realizing that most women see the nice guy act as manipulative and untrustworthy
10. Thinking that showing sexual interest in a woman is disrespectful or “too forward”
11. Placing himself in the friend zone and then getting angry when the woman rejects his advances
12. Putting up with a woman’s bad behavior in the hope that she will like him for it
13. Thinking that being an alpha male means being a jerk or bad boy
20. Thinking that being incredibly nice to a woman is original and will sweep her off her feet
22. Thinking that “being in touch with his feminine side” is what women want
24. Constantly contacting her
26. Thinking that building a friendship with a woman is the same as going through a sexual courtship with her
27. Reframing rejection as being the fault of everyone else
28. Hoping that he will grow on a woman if he can just spend enough time around her
30. Thinking that asking a woman if he can kiss her is romantic and the “right thing to do”
37. Thinking that he has to save women from mistakenly hooking up with bad boys or jerks
38. Thinking that buying her flowers or a gift will do the trick
40. Pretending to be anti-men in an attempt to get women to like him
42. Thinking that continuously putting a woman’s needs ahead of his own, will prove to her how “devoted” he is
44. Sticking to safe conversation topics to avoid offending women
45. Thinking that complaining about women to others will fix the problem
47. Not being his true self
50. Being a pushover
51. Always being available for her at any moment