I like Tony because he's not the best at everything. He's not the smartest guy around, he tends to overthink things, and often gets carried away due to his arrogance, to the point where he becomes a villain. But it all comes from a desire to do good, and yeah, he may be an overprotective asshole with a drinking problem that just cannot limit himself to one woman, but at the end of the day, no matter what, he picks himself up, and moves forward. He'll punch, he'll get punched, but he'll always get up. He's not a boy-scout,but he's notan edge-lord either. He's an optimist, but a realist as well.
To me, Tony is the perfect blend of inspiring and reletable.