>>95176757Easiest and quickest way to it is grow some nice facial hair and get somewhat /fit/, most effective is to be an interesting person. Any fucking goy can say "uhhh oh yeah haha on the weekends I go clubbing l/play vidya/work for NoseCorp and am into [generic hobby]!" Bitches dont care about that shit, its a bland blend, theyll say they do and maybe even think it, but nobody actually cares that youre Drone #2340182 in whatever generic consumerist hobby everyone else does.
Now when you say "oh yeah I take my 4x4 and go to the backside of Mount [local mountain] and climb that shit" or "in my freetime I'll blacksmith" or "yeah I like backpacking in the woods for 3 days and kyaking whenever I can" or even "I compete in lifting competitions/bike races/track my car/even fucking vidya competitions" THEN people turn their head and go "ooooo thats neat tell me more" even if youre a manlet like me. Point is find something that is challenging and you can be genuinly passionate about and then own that shit. Fuck even if its LARPing parties be upfront and honest, just dont be autistic. "Haha yeah some people think its nerdy or weird but I have fun so I dont care too much haha" normie tier response that when said with confodence will negetate the residual autism of an autistic hobby.
Again though nobody is gonna take Fatso McLardass seriously if he LARPs vs some Chad Thundercock looking fucker who does the same, Ive seen it happen time and again in my weird fucking /tg/ hobbies.
Bottom line is be yourself but be unique. If you being yourself isnt unique then be passionate and challenge yourself with your generic hobby, most people now adays are so dociled up on soy and estrogen that simply being confodent and energetic and passionate for real is unique enough.
Also getting back to beating the >manlet hurdle (and lets face it for us hurdles in general are not our friends) self deprecating humor: learn it, use it.
TL;DR: Be an average goy be treated like an average goy.
