Some many years ago, I was in a relationship and we suffered a supervillain. Now, this relationship was toxic to begin with and doomed to fail regardless, so that the supervillain was the straw that broke the camel's back came as no surprise. Still, its a tough thing to handle because it's nobody's fault. And I know that it's often much harder on the woman than on the man. However, I also know that it doesn't necessarily turn you into a sad, depressed sack of tears for the rest of your life. People move past it.