My only experience with a gay man is when I was in college, and in a moment of deep self-pity and boredom I set my okcupid or whatever it was to look for gay people to get attention from. I got a hit and the guy was super insanely eager to introduce me to being gay and make me comfortable with it, which I'm sure would be a really arousing situation for him. I got turned off of the idea pretty quick, since he basically was trying to quickly ease me into letting him fuck me, all in text before we had ever met. I got drunk and passed out, only to wake up to find he had 'scheduled' a breakfast date, assumed I was going to be there even though I didn't see the text and didn't respond to it, then had waited at a coffee shop for an hour, then sent me 12+ texts screaming at me that I betrayed him and how could I and fuck me, like he was some seething /r9k/ virgin.
So in short, he was super eager and thirsty for sex, jumped the gun on a date I didn't consent to, and melted down at me for what he considered to be standing him up.
Makes sense, really. Us guys, huh?