>>92909534I don't think I ignored it, like I said, my face aint so great.
You don't get an invitaion to hit on a girl, at least not like I think you're implying.
You just strike up a conversation, like you might with anyone you'd want to and make it interesting enough for it to branch off into detailed subjects so you can learn about one another or at least entertain her, get some laughs with a bit of wit and make yourself seem like someone who isn't afraid of rejection or the perceived threat of sexual harassment accusations for the crime of small talk.
E.G.
If it's a co-worker(not always the best idea)
>anon: so how long have you been working here?>QT: xx months>anon: oh, ok, how do you like it so far?>QT: it's ok, quite different than my last job>anon: where did you work before?>QT: mc factory desk inc, pretty much xx kind of work>anon: I worked at a place like that, the boss was cool/a dick, he once [interesting story full of laughs]ect ect, until you're on friendly terms and can discuss more meaningful topics.
particularly to casually find out if she's single or has kids.
include her in conversations with other people, don't just singularly focus her like a stalker.
make it seem like you aren't just trying to get in her pants until you've gathered enough personal info to work with.(hobbies, music, ect).
heaven forbid though, if she expresses clear interest, strike while the iron is hot.
(don't buy in to pickup artists IOI)
and for your other post:
guys want only bodies fairly often, myself a fair amount of time included(my ex's personality was all below her lower back).
if I'm conventionally ugly, girls clearly like what else I have to offer, or at least what I give the impression I offer.
The scenario you've described offers you no winning moves, I'd reconsider.
