>>92051953well lets see
Gendo for being so afraid of his son he refuses to see him as anything but a tool, and for being willing to fuck over the entire human race just to be with his dad wife again
Yui for not only abandoning her family to become an eternal 'humanz wuz here' marker, but having Shinji brought over to witness her getting eaten by 01's core
Fuyutsuki for being such a beta orbiter to Yui that he helps Gendo fuck over humanity
Akagi for letting her compulsive one-up-manship with her mother continue even after her death resulting in her getting too attached to the man planning on fucking over humanity
Misato for not only getting so caught up in er first romance post-emotional coma that it ruins her ability to interact with people, but for not realizing the problem with trying to put the moves on a grieving adolescent just because its the only form of comfort you know
Rei for bending over backwards for a man that just sees her as the welcome mat he needs to step over to get to Yui
Asuka for letting her pathological need to prove herself sabotage her ability to form meaningful bonds with others, and for blaming those equally or more talented than she is for not being as ambitious as she is, refusing to acknowledge anything but ambition as reasonable cause to do what they do, and blaming them for not being as inconsiderate of others as she is when they fail to act in the way she expected them to act
Shinji for isolating himself and telling himself he's completely alone for all the years he spent being raised by his foster parents and attending grade school when he's the one who never tried to reach out to anyone, and for then licking the boot that kicks him just because they say 'I need you'
Kaworu for being so damn perfect and accepting, more than any human is, that it keeps the boy who fell in love with him from realizing how impossible his standards for 'people worth getting close to' are
and Girlfriend of Steel's for not being canon