Dude you will never achieve wisdom if you let your bitterness control you. Disappointment has distorted your perceptions.
There are piles of normies who are happily married and will remain happily married until the end of their days, to good, obedient and devoted women. But those girls go off the market instantly and stay off forever, for obvious reasons. You only see the part with the recycled whores, so of course it looks bleak to you.
I mean, I agree that it's insane that our culture is so shit up half of all marriages end in divorce, but that still means the other half end are solid. At worst, coming in blind the odds are a coin flip, they're just worse for you because you're trying to build a palace out of whatever you can dig out of dumpsters and garbage cans. At best, you just learn to recognize the mark of a whore, slam those idly while waiting for wife material, then when you find that, marry her and leave your free-hooker days behind.
Now shut up and post some hot classic memes, you whiny fuck.