>>86752675Anon, I didn't read all of this shit you wrote, I just wanted to tell you, guys are attracted to visual, girls are attracted to status.
So doesn't really matter that you are ugly, or a bit out of shape, if you have the confidence or the status you can get a girl. Now, keeping a girlfriend is harder, to understand why a girl dumps you, you need to realize a relationship is not 50/50, there is a leader and a follower, and that's were most people fuck up, they let their girlfriends boss them around, and in the end they get dumped.
Girls need to be assured their man will take care of them, so if your girl feels you are weak, she will just not be attracted to you. Toughen up and learn to take a loss, learn from this experience and do better next time.
Girls are dicks, but it's not on purpose, it's just nature, learn to handle their goofiness and you will be fine.
I recommend listening to Patrice O'neal on the Black Phillip show, or even better, listening to him bullshiting on the Opie and Anthony show (you just need to find the episodes where he talks about relationships). He is just a comedian, but he has some great insights into relationships and girls in general.