>>83804329Once again, you fail to read deeper. Maybe I need to explain it better.
This person had just had a suicide attempt. Nobody in their family supported them in their decision to want to transition. We got back in contact after nearly 3 years and I hung out with them, motivated them to get their old job back, that people will genuinely care about them. And you know what? They did. This person hit on me an uncomfortable amount, and I was not okay with it and they wouldn't stop. I figured, 'fine, they haven't been with other people in a long time, just let is slide'. Then when we went out to eat after reintroducing them to a friend, they made jabs at my girlfriend, saying shit like me having the courtesy to bring her desert from the restaraunt is having me on a tight leash. The both of them also made out on my bed with me in the room with my back turned and it was disgusting and they wouldn't stop.
But let's get back to the real point here. Yeah, they got their shitty job back. But they were blowing their money on frivolous shit and wasting all their time on video games, masturbating, anime, and twitter, and any suggestion to find a hobby/skillset/interest that they like that they could maybe even turn into a career was shot down.
They blew $16,000+ on 3 shitty vintage cars that all blew up because they're old, high-maintenance vehicles.
That's all money that could have been used to go towards their treatment, moving out of their abusive, depressing living situation, going back to school, seeing a psych to work out a lot of issues they had, going on vacation, or buying a goddamn brand new economy car with good mileage and warranty.
You literally can't even defend this sort of behavior.
