>>77167227Ill just try to re clarify my original point.
there are going to be contexts where its going to be brought up that a transwoman isnt equal to a "real" woman.
a cis man is not tranphobic for not being attracted to someone who is/was biologically, physically a man.
however, there are people who will flip shit on them. call them a bigot, transphobic, ect. its cases like these were "a transwoman isnt the same as a "real" woman" is a fact people will vehemently stand against, and more so do everything in their power to vilify anyone who so much as implies anything close to it.
it needs to stop. people need to step and say "fuck off" because it doesnt help anything. it doesnt force any transgender acceptance and all it does it create more friction which will ultimately go against trans acceptance.
I want trans acceptance. i want them to have all the same rights and to be treated like theyre people, not freaks. being born without legs doesnt define you. being in an accident and going blind doesnt define you. being born with a disorder where your body doesnt match your mind doesnt define you.
but these are all art of people, and pretending they arent doesnt help any one.
i accept trans people. i dont pretend they are just "normal" people, becat that ISNT NOT ACCEPTANCE. that is changing your mindset of them to fit a norm you can more easily accept.
fuck that shit. black and white people are different. culturally, biologically (sickle cell,ect) and you dont have to pretend blacks and whites are THE EXACT SAME to accept that were all people.
so i dont need to pretend a transwoman is the exact same as a cis woman to accept them.
if you have to pretend someone isnt different to accept them. youre not accepting them for who they are.
this will be the last post ill make on it. if you can still somehow find a way to think any of what ive said translates into bigotry, thats all you want to believe, and theres no point arguing.
