>>127659403My theory is that a lot of guys had an experience or experiences when they were growing up right on the cusp of that mental transition during adolescence from "girls are yucky" to "I like girls" that flipped something.
Maybe it was an older cousin or aunt spending time with them, a teacher giving them extra attention during class, an older neighborhood girl bullying them, a babysitter playing with them, etc etc. The experience need not have been lewd, and it need not have registered on anything more than a subconscious level but 10, 15, 20 years later you look back and wish you'd known then what you know now and would have tapped that shit.