>>123536734Femdom comes from a similar place: the violation of taboo. You're a man, right? You've probably been conditioned to see men in a dominant role over women. The husband as the head of the household, and so forth. So the idea of a woman being dominant over YOU, and you, the man, being the weak one, is arousing.
So much of fetishism and eroticism is about the breaking and reversal of social conditioning and taboo. Not all, but a lot.